I recently found that a friend of mine will be moving, much to the vocalized distaste of others around her. It is to her and to them that I speak now.
When life provides that once in a lifetime opportunity one should rise to the occassion, they should take that terrifying plunge into the arctic waters of chance, perhaps they will find the shock refreshing. That is not to say that all will be tea and roses once you land, it may be a difficult up hill battle from there, but sometimes one just has to do what they think best regardless of what others say.
Those who truly care about the leaper may well choose to advise against it, after all change is frightening to all humans, but most particularly when one is going to be heading in a direction where it will be difficult at best to catch them if they fall. It is at these times when care and friendships can become greatly strained. Do you care enough for them to let them go, can you bring yourself to let go of something you care for so deeply? The decision is a difficult one, but ultimately it is up to the one who seeks to make the jump. There are times when you have to simply leave and mend any possible relationship problems later. Sometimes they can be patched and sometimes they can't but there comes a time when you have to do what is best for yourself, everyone else be damned.
To that friend I wish you only the greatest of happiness and the best lady luck has to offer.
On another note however; spring cleaning version 2.0 went well this weekend. Still have a lot of laundry to do but that happens sometimes especially for our little family...we tend to get distracted. *grins* School is going well I didn't get the lessons I had intended to done this weekend, but that's alright, I only have to get two lessons done before my next set ships and then I will only have one lesson remaining...or is it two...either way in the set.
The girl pigs went to their new home this weekend and she seems eager to do things the right way so it seems better in the end. The boys go to their new home either Wednesday or Thursday of this week and Kit gets his first Barkbusters session on Thursday at 10am. Yes, that means I have to be up early, but that's alright all thats coming out of this check is Barkbusters and my credit card payment so perhaps Kota and I will go out to lunch together after. All in all things are progressing nicely. Work is still stressful, but the stress level has been turned down a couple of notches, it's a bit easier to handle now, for me at least, poor Kiro is still screwed.
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